The question we all ask ourselves, huh. Who am I?
For many, the answer to this question changes depending on the season. Sadly too many base the answer on emotions, experiences, or what others have said about us; as if someones opinions define us.
Times and seasons change. Society is a fickle people. With the ever increasing need in the world to be the best, it is not hard to understand why so many feel they are in competition. It is no wonder so many young girls are insecure and so many women are broken. Shew, it is even a no wonder why men do not even know how to be men anymore.
We have been robbed of our individual gifts and uniqueness. In all of the trying to fit in and be like everyone else to please someone else…
You have heard the saying it is the suit that makes the man and the shoes that make the woman. Nope, that is not true and I have the sore feet to prove it.
The beauty industry is making a lot of money on peoples insecurities. Don’t misunderstand me, I am not saying there is anything wrong with dressing up the outside, there is nothing wrong with accentuating the beauty we already have. Shew, some of us need some help. But, my dear friend, beneath everything, all the make-up, newest fashion, hair color, you are still you and I am still me. No amount of make-up is going to take the place of the inner peace and desire for acceptance we all have.
There is only One who can give you the peace you yearn for and He already accepts you. He created you, you are His masterpiece, with His very own hands He formed you. He put so much detail in you that He knows the number of hairs on your head, He knows how many times your heart will beat, He knows where you will live, He knows your first day and your last breath. In addition to all of this, He gave you gifts and entrusted you with gifts to use to glorify Him.
While you may be looking around and comparing yourself to others, you do not even recognize what and Who He has placed in you and you do not see the one person only you can reach, or problem only you have the answer to. So you walk around, bent over, looking at your feet instead of lifting your head and knowing who you really are and Who you belong to. Royalty should not live like paupers. It is unbecoming to wallow in the pig pen and eat slop when your Father is the King.
And we all, with unveiled face, continually seeing as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are progressively being transformed into His image from [one degree of] glory to [even more] glory, which comes from the Lord, [who is] the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:18
I am going to get personal with you for a minute, OK. I didn’t meet Jesus personally until I was already an adult in my 30’s. Before Christ, I had already racked up a long laundry list of what was wrong with me; from childhood and on. I made choices based on fear and insecurities that were ingrained in me. I believed every lie and was on the path to confirm every lie was truth.
After I met Christ, although all my sins were forgiven, I still harbored guilt and shame. Of course this was concealed very well; so well that I didn’t even fully realize I was carrying all the heavy baggage until later…
Then little by little my slip started to show (know what I mean, ladies?). So I tried to pull it up, tuck it in, cover it up, because I am a Christian and Christians aren’t suppose to have these issues. The more I tried to cover it the heavier it got and on top of it all I took it upon myself to add shame, guilt, regret, and perhaps a lil’ unforgiveness to my suitcase.
I looked like this…
I just couldn’t understand why everything was going to pot; no matter how much I prayed or read my Bible. I was good at encouraging other people and believing the word, God’s promises for them, but not for myself… I was a mess.
You know why? Because I was sitting outside of the palace eating in the pig pen. I knew I was saved. I knew God loved me (even though I couldn’t understand why), but His word said He did so He must, right.
It is like locking your door, but leaving your window open. Sooner or later the thief is going to try to break in and steal your stuff.
Jesus told us the thief comes to steal, kill, and destroy. He also told us that Satan is the father of lies. When we believe anything contrary to what God’s word says, we are to cast it down, because it is a lie. We are not to believe it! But it doesn’t stop here!
When you know God’s word, you can recognize the lie and you must combat the lie with the truth! You can’t just ignore the devil and hope he goes away. No! You have to kick him out! He takes your silence as agreement. You have to open your mouth.
God has already set you free! To walk in His freedom you must take the steps. If you want out of the prison cell of shame, regret, fear, insecurity then you must walk through the open door.
Dear prodigal, do you not know your Father is waiting for you? Sweet woman, there is no need to die of thirst at the well when He gives you springs of life and a refreshing that overflows and never stops.
The next time that lying demon whispers in your ear you put your foot down, stand your ground and fight back with God’s truth!
I am leaving you with some thoughts, ammunition, to get you started. Read it, meditate on it, remember it, AND BELIEVE IT!
- I am the salt of the earth –Matthew 5:13I
- I am the light of the world –Matthew 5:14
- I am a child of God -John 1:12
- I am a friend of Jesus –John 15;15
- I am chosen and appointed –John 15:16
- I am a joint heir with Christ –Romans 8:14-17
- God’s Spirit dwells in me –1 Corinthians 6:19
- I am a saint –Ephesians 1:1
- I am blessed with every spiritual blessing –Ephesians 1:3
- I am righteous and holy –Ephesians 4:24
- I am delivered –Colossians 1:13
- I am chosen of God –Colossians 3:2
- I am an enemy of the devil –1 Peter 5:8
- I am a child of God –1 John 3:1-2
- The devil can’t touch me –1 John 5:18
- I am part of the bride of Christ –Revelation 21:9
This is God’s word and God doesn’t lie. This is the truth of who you are!
If you would like to share more of Gods promises to us, please leave a comment below.
Until I write again, or we meet in heaven…
Be Free & Stay Free